A lifestyle crossdresser that loves being a gurl. I live the life of a gurl for the most part, 24/7. I consider myself bi-sexual as I enjoy both men and women. I am a bottom only and prefer strong personalities in both men and women. I am 57. Thin build with long blond hair. I am 5'6" and weigh in at about 120 lbs. I consider myself somewhat of an old fashion woman. If you were to look into my closet you find exactly what a woman of my age would wear. I am a retired Mechanical Engineer. I love living in Door County and have no desire to move from the Door as we call it. A few things right from the get-go: I am not interested in an any form of cyber role play. I do not part take in any form of sex chat. After we have built up a rapport, things can change. If you engage in sex chat I will end the chat immediately. So that being said here is my story. I met a woman when I was 14, she was 30. I used to work as a bus boy at an Italian restaurant and we started talking and would hang out. The day after my 16th birthday we had sex for the first time. It was great. She taught me all about how to be with a woman. The day after I graduated high school I moved in with her, much to my parent’s displeasure. While I was living with her I went to the local tech school and took classes in Mechanical Design. Since we were the exact size, I mean right down to height, weight shoe size etc. I had what would be described as a slim female figure. I never had much of a man’s shape, even as a teenager I looked like a girl or more gender neutral. My mother had the hardest time finding clothes that fit me in the boys section. I digress. So since my live in girlfriend loved to make her own clothes, it was the 80's, she would have me model things so she could see how they looked. As time went on one thing lead to another and she would fully dress me up as a girl. Complete with make-up and by this time my hair was longer and she would style it. We even went out as few times with me dressed as a girl. When it was getting time for me to graduate tech school she just up and disappeared. She had a history of doing this, but this time it was much longer. I moved out and took all her stuff and started life on my own. Once on my own and living in downtown Milwaukee I really got into my dressing. Every weekend and when I would come home from work I would go into gurl mode. I made friends as a CD and had a great life. I met a girl and we dated for about 3 years, I was 21 at this time. She enjoyed my dressing but not as a full time thing. Plus she wanted to get married and have kids. This did not interest me at all. So we parted ways and we still stayed in contact but that is about it. We still chat and are good friends but nothing more. When I was 24 or so I met a man at a local gay club. He was a territorial sales rep. He would come up to Milwaukee every 6 weeks or so and I would spend time with him. As stated I was around 24/25 and he was around 45. I would go to his hotel on Friday after work and would stay with him until Saturday when he would head out. He was married but I did not care to much about it. As time went on our relationship got more intense. We started playing around with bondage, mostly hand cuffs, leg cuffs, gags, blindfolds, spankings and some role playing. I started to get deep feelings for this man and he told me he loved me and I as well. This affair went on for about 2 years or so. At one point he stopped calling and I never heard from him again. He dumped me without even a good bye. I was heartbroken. I was 26 or so and was totally crushed! To this day I have no clue what became of him. Since then I have had a few male and female lovers but nothing in the past 20 years or so. I find it hard trying to find someone that I want to be with on that level again. I have a number of friends that fill my void for love and friendship. I live as a gurl most of the time. I have no desire to transition from male to female. I enjoy being a gender bender and love my life. As of last summer, 2022, I have retired to spend more time travelling and doing hobbies. I love to do stained glass work and I also love to make pipe lamps. If you do not know what a pipe lamp is just Goggle it. Still not sure what I am looking for but I always keep my eyes open. Since I have a very active social life I have no desire to move, and since I have been single for so long I have really no desire to have a live in relationship. Just somebody to hang with and have sex with. I am open to both men and women. I am a sub (bottom) and am only interested in people of strong personality. The picture on my profile is old, about 6 years and since then I have dropped all the weight I put on over the years. I am 5'7" tall and weigh about 126s. I am a natural blond and my hair is long. I usually wear it in a pony tail, but on occasion I will style it. I am very fem and love to dress in nice clothes. About the only time I am not in gurl mode is when doing yard work or riding my bike, hard to tuck when riding my bike. For the most part I am pretty friendly so feel free to chat me up. Things that are deal breakers are people that are in any kind of a relationship. I do not care what the circumstances are whether you have an open or are separated etc. You must be totally single! Also you must be fit! I have worked really hard to get back into shape and you must be as well. Also no smokers at all! No recreational drugs either! And your alcohol consumption must be that of a social drinker. You must be intelligent. You must also have some culture about you and not spend all your time watching sports. I enjoy going to plays, musicals and the symphony. I double majored in both Mechanical Engineering and Physics. Also you must have a job or be retired. Thank you for reading about me and hope to chat soon OTHER INFO I consider myself a modern woman more along the lines of a female emulator. I have no desire to transition or take hormones of any kind. I wear everything from shorts, pants skirts and tops, dresses and evening gowns. I have an extensive lingerie collection of bra's, panties and slips. I am looking for a partner not a daddy / mommy or to be owned. For the men folk, I was not put on this planet to give you oral all the time. I do like to have sex as well, often. Also I need a lover that has a good size penis. Simply put. If you are a 6 stroke Stan before you orgasm, that will be a deal breaker. You need to be able to last or have a quick recovery.

looking to meet other like minded people

Very open minded. Willing to try anything new. Respectful and courteous to others feelings, wants, and dislikes. Just looking to get a chance to experience heaven really!! I love to work with my hands and yes that includes naughty and nice things. I still believe in being a true gentlemen. Heck I still carry a handkerchief to this day. I won’t sugar coat or lie as being honest is the best way to go about things. Keeping track of lies is too exhausting and just ends up blowing up in your face. I may not be the hunk next door with a chiseled body or the next model for GQ magazine but if you just give me a chance and I promise not to disappoint! Talk with me and see how things go! What’s the worst that can happen!!

crossdresser looking to chat for fun with other girls - crossdressers, transgender women. not really into men right now. pm always open for you, ladies. On a journey, discovering more and more what this means for me. If I could take the blue pill and be a girl? YES

Looking for fun

I am A tall crossdresser that loves stockings and high heels

Very nice and easy going

I started out as an admirer, but somehow along the way got caught up in dressing. More of a hobby than a lifestyle in my case - not passable and very apprehensive about going out in public.

just a tall man looking for friends , chat , and all that . Not into men ,

Justin from Chicago. Im dating Roxi CD queen. :)

Hi im a trans girl seeking like minded friends . I've been doing this 4 years. Wish I started sooner. I call my path "the way of the cock".I have few limitations sexually. Im verse switch so almost anything goes giggles I prefer to bottom. I love giving bjs.

I tried to update this and it didn’t take. This will be a work in progress. I thought my brief intro would inspire people to want to talk…to ask questions. That was dumb. What it did inspire was some “hot sports opinions” some valid, others not so much. Some questioning my intellect. So fine, here’s a profile in as much detail as I feel like writing but you’re probably going to like this a lot less than you did “Come and find out”. But this is what you wanted. Let’s start with the simple stuff. 1. Stop reading here and block me (instructions on how to do this below). Do not waste anymore of your time or mine, it’s not worth the trouble. I don’t have the time or energy to fight with you because I zigged to the left when you think I should have zagged to the right. 2. Be a follower of your own rules. Simple. 3. I will never EVER send you a private message without your permission (and I probably won’t anyway). I don’t come here to cyber. I’m not saying I never have or never will. I’m saying I’m not interested in harassing you. This also means I’m probably not going to answer yours…it cuts both ways. 4. I don’t care what you look like. If you don’t want to post a pic then don’t. If you want to post a pic that isn’t you but best represents you and how you present…go for it. But if your pic isn’t of you, and I know it’s not you, and you know that I know that isn’t your pic…then don’t hassle me about mine. 5. Regardless of your preferences we can still be civil. You don’t have to be interested in men to say hello. If you hate men (and you have every right to) then we can just ignore each other. You don’t need to be hateful just because I’m a man, or because you’re reading this and you think I don’t have the right to say these things. 6. If you require a 1000 word essay to determine whether or not I’m worthy of saying hi…pass me by. A two line bio as follows should suffice: I’m doing fine (Even if I weren’t I wouldn’t tell you, as a simple courtesy.) The weather is fine (there are 3 weeks a year, not contiguous, that require a sweater. There are 3 days a year, also not contiguous..usually, that might require a heavy coat.) 7. I am new to this community and this lifestyle. I’ve been interested in CD/TG most of my life but I’ve never had the courage to explore this side of my life. The “warm welcome” (read sarcasm) I’ve received has not done anything helpful and if I’m being honest I find it ironic (if not comical) that some ladies that have complained about my (Come and find out.) profile are ones that have no interest in men, don’t want to be contacted by men, etc. So with all that said, let’s get to the how you block me part. BTW you could’ve/should’ve done that 5 min ago and you wouldn’t have had to read all this. But look at the bright side, now that it’s all written down, even if you can’t be bothered to block me, we don’t have to talk to each other. To block me: 1. Write (screen shot it) this down because once you block my profile you won’t be able to read this. 2. Block my profile. To do this just click that “block” button on my profile. (Note: This only prevents me from jerking off to your pics…we’re not done yet.) 3. Block my PMs. To do this you must send me a PM (counter intuitive…I know) and then you click the little person icon. This will open my mini profile and you click block. (Note: This prevents me from sending you dick pics but we’re not done yet…I can still harass you in the lobby…we need to be thorough.) 4. Click the little person icon in the lobby (you have to do this for every room you visit, individually) and find my name…click ignore and you’re all set.

Hi back on here after taking some time off still figuring myself

Until recently I was strictly a straight man. I’ve become more open to new experiences and ideas, and I’m now attracted to trans women. I’d like to chat more about it.

I have been dressing since you and looking for friends.Lets chat

I'm Proud of who i'm, I always know everything have time and season, if i don't have today tomorrow i will have, Men always be honest if you want to talk to me. Don't ask of my pics Expect I know you and trust you before I can send my pics.

Fun loving, slim, somewhat attractive, pre-op gurl. Trying to become totally full time. There is something about black men that I can't seem to resist. I would love to have 2 or perhaps 3 black men as best friends and it doesn't have to be sexual. Update Feb 22, 2006 - Thank you for all the kind words. I guess I am my own worse judge and even though I've been dressing for years now, I still get nervous as I go out in public.

Love trans, 8. Inch

Love the outdoors! I really enjoy meeting new people and chatting!!

Mature tgal looking for friends and romance. I started dressing at 13 and have never been able to stop. It seems as I get older the desire is stronger then ever to become the woman I am inside.

Mature in the closet CD. Love chatting with other like minded cds.

Married closet cd looking to explore

hi - bi married girl who loves dressing and being with others like myself. I realize I am no longer thinking of myself in any male role.

The desire to cross dress has always been in me... of late coming back stronger than ever. Would enjoy finding a female partner who supports and enjoys.